Popular Nigerian comedian, AY Makun has shared a word of advice to people who have been hurt by someone they trusted before.
According to him, the mistake such people made is that they trusted people too easily.
Speaking about what to do to overcome the trouble faced after facing a betrayal, AY wrote;
“Trust is the basis around which all human relationships revolve. Sometimes it comes naturally or earned within a given period. But one mistake that most of us make till date is in trusting people easily. It’s just so hard these days to tell who has your back, from those who has it long enough to stab you.
Today we live in a world where you cannot controls someone’s loyalty. No matter how good you are to them, doesn’t mean that they will treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, doesn’t mean that they will value you the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the people you can trust the least. Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you.
It’s a new day. Try not to stress over that shady friend, co-worker, lover, staff or boss who betrayed you. Sometimes, instead of being hurt, you should look at betrayal as a gift. It makes it much easier to sweep them up and toss them out with the rest of the trash. Because when trash starts to stink… it has no more value in your life”.